It’s 2026 and we’re just getting started on understanding the female body
It’s 2026… and we’re only now mapping the full clitoris.
There is something quietly unsettling about that. Not because the body was ever a mystery. But because it wasn’t prioritized.
In 1998, the full nerve structure of male anatomy was mapped, studied, documented. Clear. Defined. Understood. In the early 2000s, Australian urologist Helen O’Connell began challenging what medical textbooks had long reduced or ignored.
Up until then, the clitoris was typically described as a small external structure. A button. A surface point, meanwhile it is a high sensory, powerful organ with over 8,000 nerve endings and an intricate internal network.
But in 2005, O’Connell and her research team used detailed imaging and anatomical study to map the clitoris more fully, and what they revealed changed everything. The clitoris is not just what is visible externally. It is a much larger, complex internal network that extends into the body, wrapping around the vaginal canal with structures known as the crura and vestibular bulbs. A system of erectile tissue, nerve pathways, and interconnected parts that respond, expand, and engage far beyond what had been previously acknowledged. In other words, the majority of it had been… unseen.
Let that land for a moment.
This isn’t just about anatomy. This is about what happens when a woman’s body is not fully seen. When knowledge is delayed.
When sensation is not taught. When something so central to a woman’s experience is reduced, simplified, or ignored entirely. Women have not been shown the full landscape of her body. This is part of why we lack information. We lose relationship....
With our sensation. Our boundaries. Our ability to feel what is true.
And over time, that creates a kind of quiet disconnection. Not always obvious. But present.
And yet…
Even in all of this, our body never stopped speaking. It has always communicated through sensation. Through subtle cues. Through tension, softening, opening, closing. A language that was never gone, only not fully acknowledged.
So what we are witnessing now is not a discovery.
It’s a recognition.
A slow catching up to what women have always had access to through feeling. Because the truth is, the body did not wait to be mapped in order to be intelligent. It was built with this wisdom.
It's ancient.
What’s changing now is not the body. It’s our willingness to listen. And maybe that’s where the real shift begins.
Not in learning more.
But in returning to what was never missing.
Monica
Acts of Devotion
YOU WERE NEVER MISSING. I JUST WASN'T SURE HOW TO FULLY MEET YOU.
INTENTION: To restore the relationship and witness your cl1toris without asking for something to 'happen"
Pause at some point today when you’re not rushing.
Not in a ritual. Not in a perfect setting. Just in the middle of your actual life.
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Go somewhere private. Close the door. Lock it if you need to.
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Remove your underwear. No setup. No mood. No performance.
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Stand, sit, or squat, whatever feels most natural in your body.
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Pause before touching anything. Notice your first impulse (rush, hesitation, avoidance).
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Bring one hand between your legs.
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Place your finger directly on your clitoris.
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Do not move. Do not stimulate. Just make contact.
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Stay there longer than you normally would.
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Notice what happens: sensation, numbness, thoughts, the urge to move or leave.
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When the urge to adjust or turn it into something arises...pause instead.
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Let your breath move naturally. Don’t control it.
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If sensation builds, don’t chase it. If nothing happens, don’t abandon it.
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Stay for a few breaths past the moment you’d usually stop.
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Slowly remove your hand.
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Notice how quickly your body wants to disconnect, and choose to remain present for a few seconds longer.
Move slowly.
Pause often.
You don’t need to “feel something.” You don’t need to make it meaningful.
This is about honesty.
Because the way you touch your body, your sacred spaces, when no one is watching, tells the truth about your relationship with them.
Notice if there’s neutrality, discomfort, curiosity… or nothing at all.
All of it belongs.
Before you finish, place your hand over your vulva and acknowledge, even silently:
You were never missing. I just wasn’t shown how to see you.
Close the practice gently.
No need to rush away.

Ancestral Kitchen
Ancient Velvety Date Paste
A dense, ancient paste. This is old nourishment. The kind given to restore energy, support hormones, and bring warmth back into the body where it’s been depleted. Sweet, rich, and quietly supportive in the deeper tissues.
You’ll need
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2–3 soft dates (pitted)
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1 tsp ghee
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Pinch of ground cardamom
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Tiny pinch of sea salt
How to make it
Place the dates in a small bowl and mash them with a fork until soft.
Add the ghee, cardamom, and salt.
Continue mashing and mixing until it forms a thick, smooth paste.
Eat slowly, by the spoon.
Why I love this
Dates are deeply nourishing and supportive to the blood and energy of the body. Ghee brings warmth, lubrication, and supports hormonal balance and tissue repair. Cardamom gently aids digestion while adding a subtle aromatic lift.
A playful devotion (optional)
Before your first bite, pause.
Notice if your body wants to rush toward the sweetness. Take a slower spoonful than usual. Let it sit in your mouth for a moment before swallowing. Receive it.

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From my hands to you....

EVENTS. CIRCLES.

© copyright 2025 Mother Tree Medicine School TM, Monica Guerreiro







